sei3 fong1 bin1 deng2四方辮頂四方辫顶

Jyutpingsei3 fong1 bin1 deng2

Yalesei fōng bīn déng

Definition

A man who spends all his money courting a lady but gets no favor or affection in return.

slangpeoplemoney

How it's used

This term carries a strong sense of mockery towards men who believe they can buy affection through excessive spending. It specifically targets the imbalance of the relationship where the man is being exploited for his financial resources. It is rarely used in polite company and is mostly found in casual gossip among friends.

Examples

keoi5佢seng4成jat6日zou6做sei3四fong1方bin1辮deng2頂，zeoi3最hau6後dou1都hai6係mou5冇jan4人lei5理。

He is always a sucker for love, but in the end, no one pays him any mind.

nei5你mai1咪zou6做sei3四fong1方bin1辮deng2頂laa1啦，go2嗰go3個neoi5女zai2仔gan1根bun2本m4唔zung1鍾ji3意nei5你。

Don't be a fool who spends all his money on her, that girl doesn't like you at all.

Common phrases

zou6做sei3四fong1方bin1辮deng2頂

to act as a sucker for love

Common mistake

Do not confuse this with simply being generous or romantic. It implies a lack of self-respect and a one-sided dynamic that others find pathetic or foolish.