saam1 cung4 sei3 dak1三從四德三从四德
Jyutpingsaam1 cung4 sei3 dak1
Yalesāam chùhng sei dāk
Definition
The Three Obediences and Four Virtues, a set of moral principles and conduct requirements for women in ancient China.
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How it's used
This phrase is almost exclusively used in modern contexts to critique or mock outdated, patriarchal values. It carries a strong negative connotation of oppression and is rarely used in a literal or positive sense today. When people mention it, they are usually highlighting how far society has progressed away from such rigid gender roles.
Examples
Who still talks about the Three Obediences and Four Virtues nowadays?
She is very repulsed by that old set of Three Obediences and Four Virtues.
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Common phrases
feudal Three Obediences and Four Virtues
Common mistake
Learners often mistake this for a positive cultural value, but using it to describe a modern woman's behavior will sound extremely offensive or sarcastic. It is strictly a historical term for a system of control rather than a compliment for good character.
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Grammar guides
- LocationHow to say where something is using 喺 (hai2), place words like 度, and the common coverbs that work like English prepositions.
- Serial verbsStringing two or more verbs together without any joining word, like go to the shop buy things. Extremely common in Cantonese.
- 將 disposalHow to move the object in front of the verb with 將, to focus on what happens to it. Common in instructions and writing.



