nau2 ji5 zai2扭耳仔
Definition
To twist someone's ear as a punishment, or metaphorically to control and dominate someone.
- to twist someone's ear, typically to punish them or force obedience
- figurativeto be strictly controlled or dominated by someone, especially a spouse
How it's used
This expression captures a specific cultural image of discipline, often associated with traditional school settings or strict domestic dynamics. While it can literally refer to the physical act of ear twisting, it is frequently used figuratively to describe being henpecked or forced into submission by an authority figure. It carries a slightly playful or exaggerated tone when used between adults, implying a power imbalance that is accepted as part of the relationship dynamic.
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Do not confuse this with physical ear pain or medical issues, as the term is strictly tied to the social act of punishment or control. It is also not used to describe general bullying, but specifically a form of correction or dominance.
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Grammar guides
- NegationHow to say no, not, didn't, and don't in Cantonese. The four main negation words and when to use each one.
- Numbers and moneyCounting, talking about money, and asking how much things cost. Includes the two words for two and the everyday words for dollars and cents.
- Aspect markersCantonese has no tenses, but it does have aspect markers. Learn how zo2, gwo3, gan2, and hai2 dou6 show completion, experience, and ongoing action.
