lou5 kam1老襟
Jyutpinglou5 kam1
Yalelóuh kām
Definition
Men who have had a sexual relationship with the same woman.
colloquialpeoplefamily
How it's used
This term specifically refers to the relationship between men who have been with the same woman, often implying a shared history or connection through her. It carries a strong sense of irony or dark humor in social settings, as it highlights a complex and unconventional bond. It is rarely used in formal contexts and is mostly found in gossip or casual banter among friends.
Examples
It turns out those two are brothers-in-law through the same woman.
Do you know that they are brothers-in-law through the same woman?
Related words
Common phrases
to be in this specific relationship
Common mistake
Do not confuse this with 襟兄弟, which refers to men who are married to sisters. Using this term incorrectly can cause significant social awkwardness because of its specific, often salacious, implication.
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