kau1 zai2媾仔
Jyutpingkau1 zai2
Yalekāu jái
Definition
To flirt with men, pick up guys, or try to find a boyfriend.
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How it's used
This term carries a slightly cheeky or judgmental tone, often implying a deliberate or active search for romantic attention. It is strictly used for women pursuing men, whereas the equivalent for men pursuing women is 媾女. It is common to hear this used in gossip or when teasing friends about their social life.
Examples
She is always going to Lan Kwai Fong to pick up guys.
Are you going out to flirt with guys again?
Related words
Common phrases
to go out to pick up guys
Common mistake
Do not use this word in formal or professional settings, as it is considered quite crude and informal. It is specifically gendered and should not be used to describe general dating or socializing.
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Grammar guides
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