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Definition
Capable in both domestic duties and social situations; describing a woman who is both a skilled homemaker and elegant in public.
How it's used
This idiom serves as a traditional compliment for a woman, highlighting a dual mastery of domestic chores and social grace. It reflects a cultural expectation where a partner is valued for being both a capable homemaker and a polished representative of the family in public. While it is often used as a high compliment, modern speakers may sometimes use it with a touch of irony or acknowledge that it carries traditional gendered expectations.
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Common mistake
Do not use this phrase to describe a man, as it is culturally rooted in traditional expectations of a wife or female partner. Using it for a man might sound confusing or unintentionally sarcastic.
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Grammar guides
- TonesCantonese has six tones, and the tones can change in certain grammatical contexts. Learn the six tones and the rules for tone change.
- Time and datesClock time, days of the week, months, and years. The patterns you need to make plans and talk about when things happen.
- Modal verbsHow to say can, will, may, should, must, and want. The core modal verbs of Cantonese and the differences that trip up beginners.
