hei2 mei5 zyu3起尾注
Definition
To swindle someone of all their money by offering initial small gains to entice a heavy final bet.
- to swindle someone of all their assets by baiting them to make a huge bet
- slangto betray or cheat a friend or business partner
How it's used
Originally referring to a specific sleight of hand in gambling where a player lures others into a large pot before winning it all, this term has expanded to describe any situation where someone is lured into a false sense of security before being betrayed or exploited. It carries a strong connotation of premeditated malice and betrayal, often involving a partner or someone trusted. While it implies a financial loss, it is frequently used metaphorically to describe being backstabbed in business or personal relationships.
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Do not confuse this with simply losing money or being unlucky. It specifically requires the element of being lured or set up by someone you trusted, making it a much stronger accusation than just being cheated.
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