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Definition
Reverse psychology; prodding or provoking someone into action through criticism or reverse talk.
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How it's used
This term describes a manipulative but common social tactic where one person challenges another's ego or ability to provoke a specific response. It is frequently used in family or workplace settings when someone is procrastinating or hesitant to take on a task. The effectiveness of the method relies entirely on the target feeling slighted enough to want to prove the speaker wrong.
Examples
Stop trying to goad me, I'm not going no matter what.
He used reverse psychology on me, wanting me to finish the report faster.
Related words
Common phrases
to use reverse psychology
to fall for the bait
Common mistake
Learners often mistake this for simple teasing or bullying. While it involves critical language, the defining characteristic is the underlying goal of motivating the other person to act, rather than just causing offense.
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Grammar guides
- NegationHow to say no, not, didn't, and don't in Cantonese. The four main negation words and when to use each one.
- Numbers and moneyCounting, talking about money, and asking how much things cost. Includes the two words for two and the everyday words for dollars and cents.
- Aspect markersCantonese has no tenses, but it does have aspect markers. Learn how zo2, gwo3, gan2, and hai2 dou6 show completion, experience, and ongoing action.
