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Definition
Whoever started the trouble should end it; the person who created a problem must be the one to solve it.
How it's used
This idiom carries a slightly formal or literary tone despite being used in daily life to emphasize personal responsibility. It is often invoked when someone tries to intervene in a conflict that they did not start, reminding others that the original perpetrator is the only one capable of truly resolving the issue. It functions as a firm, slightly philosophical way to tell someone to stop avoiding their own mess.
Examples
Common mistake
Learners often try to use this as a direct instruction to someone else, but it is more of a proverb or observation about a situation. Using it too frequently in casual settings can sound overly dramatic or like you are lecturing the other person.
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Grammar guides
- NegationHow to say no, not, didn't, and don't in Cantonese. The four main negation words and when to use each one.
- Numbers and moneyCounting, talking about money, and asking how much things cost. Includes the two words for two and the everyday words for dollars and cents.
- Aspect markersCantonese has no tenses, but it does have aspect markers. Learn how zo2, gwo3, gan2, and hai2 dou6 show completion, experience, and ongoing action.
