gaa1 cau2 bat1 ceot1 ngoi6 cyun4家醜不出外傳家丑不出外传
Definition
Family scandals should not be aired to outsiders and should instead be settled privately within the group.
How it's used
This idiom emphasizes the cultural value of maintaining face for a group by keeping internal conflicts private. While it originated in the context of family, it is frequently applied to professional or organizational settings to discourage whistleblowing or gossip. It serves as a social pressure tactic to ensure that disputes remain contained within the original circle.
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Common mistake
Learners often mistake this for a simple description of a family secret, but it is actually a prescriptive moral guideline. Using it to describe a neutral secret is incorrect, as it specifically refers to embarrassing or shameful matters that could damage the reputation of the group.
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Grammar guides
- NegationHow to say no, not, didn't, and don't in Cantonese. The four main negation words and when to use each one.
- Numbers and moneyCounting, talking about money, and asking how much things cost. Includes the two words for two and the everyday words for dollars and cents.
- Aspect markersCantonese has no tenses, but it does have aspect markers. Learn how zo2, gwo3, gan2, and hai2 dou6 show completion, experience, and ongoing action.
