fu2 gwo3 di4 di2苦過弟弟苦过弟弟
Jyutpingfu2 gwo3 di4 di2
Yalefú gwo dìh dí
Definition
Extremely miserable, hard, or full of suffering.
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How it's used
This expression is a humorous and slightly exaggerated way to describe extreme hardship or suffering. The inclusion of 弟弟 adds a playful, rhyming quality that softens the gravity of the situation, making it sound more like a complaint among friends than a formal statement of despair. It is rarely used in professional or serious contexts where one would instead use 艱苦 or 困苦.
Examples
Her job has low pay and is exhausting, it is truly miserable.
Do you think life is currently miserable?
Related words
Common phrases
life is miserable
really miserable
Common mistake
Learners often mistake this for a literal comparison to a younger brother, but it is a fixed idiom where the rhyme is more important than the literal meaning. Avoid using it in formal writing or when speaking to someone you do not know well, as it can sound overly casual or dismissive of genuine hardship.
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Grammar guides
- Directional complementsThe small words added after a verb to show direction of movement, like up, down, out, in, and back. Common in everyday Cantonese.
- DemonstrativesThis and that with 呢 and 嗰, the personal pronouns, and how 哋 turns I, you, and he into we, you all, and they.
- Resultative complementsSticking a result word onto a verb to show how it turned out, like eat until full or look and find. A productive everyday pattern.
