dak1 jiu4 jan4 cyu3 ce2 jiu4 jan4得饒人處且饒人得饶人处且饶人
Jyutpingdak1 jiu4 jan4 cyu3 ce2 jiu4 jan4
Yaledāk yìuh yàhn chyu ché yìuh yàhn
Definition
To be forgiving wherever possible and not press one's advantage too far.
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How it's used
This phrase is a classic proverb used to advise someone against being overly harsh or vindictive when they have the upper hand. It is typically invoked during conflicts or negotiations where one party has the power to punish or demand more, but chooses mercy instead. It carries a tone of moral maturity and social harmony.
Examples
Let's both take a step back, it's better to be forgiving when you can.
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Grammar guides
- NegationHow to say no, not, didn't, and don't in Cantonese. The four main negation words and when to use each one.
- Numbers and moneyCounting, talking about money, and asking how much things cost. Includes the two words for two and the everyday words for dollars and cents.
- Aspect markersCantonese has no tenses, but it does have aspect markers. Learn how zo2, gwo3, gan2, and hai2 dou6 show completion, experience, and ongoing action.
