bun3 teoi1 bun3 zau6半推半就
Jyutpingbun3 teoi1 bun3 zau6
Yalebun tēui bun jauh
Definition
To accept or agree to something with a show of reluctance.
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How it's used
This idiom describes a situation where someone feigns resistance to something they actually desire or are willing to do. It often implies a social dance where the person wants to maintain a modest or coy image while ultimately yielding to the request. It is frequently used in romantic contexts or when someone is being coaxed into a task they are secretly happy to perform.
Examples
He accepted the invitation with a show of reluctance.
Related words
Common phrases
reluctantly (adverbial use)
Common mistake
Avoid using this to describe genuine refusal or inability. If someone truly does not want to do something, using this phrase incorrectly implies that they are just playing hard to get.
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Grammar guides
- NegationHow to say no, not, didn't, and don't in Cantonese. The four main negation words and when to use each one.
- Numbers and moneyCounting, talking about money, and asking how much things cost. Includes the two words for two and the everyday words for dollars and cents.
- Aspect markersCantonese has no tenses, but it does have aspect markers. Learn how zo2, gwo3, gan2, and hai2 dou6 show completion, experience, and ongoing action.



