bei1 fun1 lei4 hap6悲歡離合悲欢离合
Jyutpingbei1 fun1 lei4 hap6
Yalebēi fūn lèih hahp
Definition
The joys and sorrows, separations and reunions of life; the ups and downs of human existence.
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How it's used
This idiom is typically used in a reflective or philosophical tone when discussing the inevitable cycles of human relationships and life experiences. It carries a sense of maturity and acceptance, often appearing in contexts where someone is consoling a friend or contemplating the passage of time. While it is a four-character idiom, it is frequently integrated into casual conversation to describe the emotional complexity of growing up or aging.
Examples
Life is full of ups and downs, try to look on the bright side.
Having experienced so many of life's ups and downs, you should be quite open-minded.
Related words
Common phrases
the joys and sorrows of life
to see through the cycles of life
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Grammar guides
- NegationHow to say no, not, didn't, and don't in Cantonese. The four main negation words and when to use each one.
- Numbers and moneyCounting, talking about money, and asking how much things cost. Includes the two words for two and the everyday words for dollars and cents.
- Aspect markersCantonese has no tenses, but it does have aspect markers. Learn how zo2, gwo3, gan2, and hai2 dou6 show completion, experience, and ongoing action.
