zo2 jau6 wai4 naan4左右為難左右为难

Jyutpingzo2 jau6 wai4 naan4

Yalejó yauh wàih nàahn

Definition

To be in a dilemma or a quandary; to be in a difficult position where any choice is hard to make.

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How it's used

This idiom describes a state of being caught between two equally difficult or undesirable choices. It is frequently used when someone is pressured by two opposing parties to take a side or make a decision that will inevitably offend one of them. Unlike some idioms that sound overly formal, this is commonly used in daily conversation to express personal frustration.

Examples

loeng5兩bin1邊dou1都m4唔hang2肯joeng6讓bou6步，gaau2搞dou3到ngo5我zo2左jau6右wai4為naan4難。

Neither side is willing to compromise, which puts me in a dilemma.

nei5你giu3叫ngo5我dim2點gaan2揀hou2好？zan1真hai6係zo2左jau6右wai4為naan4難aa4呀。

How do you expect me to choose? I am really in a quandary.

Common phrases

gam2感dou3到zo2左jau6右wai4為naan4難

to feel caught in a dilemma

Common mistake

Learners often mistake this for a physical description of being stuck between two objects, but it is strictly used for abstract situations involving decision making or interpersonal conflict.