seoi2 kau1 jau4水溝油水沟油
Jyutpingseoi2 kau1 jau4
Yaleséui kāu yàuh
Definition
Like oil and water; incompatible people who cannot get along with each other.
colloquialpeopleemotion
How it's used
Describes a fundamental incompatibility between people, similar to the English idiom oil and water. It implies that no matter how hard you try to force a connection, the two parties will naturally separate or clash. It is almost exclusively used to describe interpersonal relationships rather than abstract concepts.
Examples
Their personalities are like oil and water, how can they be friends?
He and I really don't mix, we can't get along at all.
Related words
Common phrases
personalities that do not mix
Common mistake
Do not use this to describe things that are simply different or diverse, as it specifically carries the connotation of active repulsion or inability to blend. It is not used for inanimate objects like mixing ingredients in a recipe.
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