m4 dou3唔到

Jyutpingm4 dou3
Yalem̀h dou
動詞Very common

Definition

To have no choice but to do something; not up to someone to decide.

colloquialpeopledaily actions

How it's used

This construction functions as a way to assert authority or emphasize a lack of agency. It is almost always followed by a person or pronoun, acting as a gatekeeper for the action that follows. It carries a firm, sometimes confrontational tone, signaling that the subject has lost their power of decision.

Examples

You don't get to call the shots here.
You have no choice this time, you must go.

Common phrases

not up to you to decide
not up to you to choose

Common mistake

Learners often confuse this with 唔可以, which simply means cannot. 唔到 implies a structural or external restriction where the person is physically or socially prevented from having a choice, rather than just a prohibition.

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