ku1 bou1箍煲
Jyutpingku1 bou1
Yalekū bōu
Definition
To patch up a broken relationship; to reconcile or win back a partner.
colloquialpeopleemotion
How it's used
Literally meaning to tighten a metal hoop around a ceramic pot, this term is exclusively used for romantic relationships. It carries a slightly desperate or persistent tone, often implying that one party is trying to fix a bond that is already falling apart. It is very common in gossip or when friends discuss someone's breakup drama.
Examples
They had a huge fight, it is hard to even try to reconcile.
Are you still trying to save the relationship? Just let it go.
Related words
Common phrases
successfully reconcile
Common mistake
Do not use this for fixing non-romantic things like broken objects or business deals, as it specifically evokes the image of repairing a fragile, cracked relationship.
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Grammar guides
- TonesCantonese has six tones, and the tones can change in certain grammatical contexts. Learn the six tones and the rules for tone change.
- Time and datesClock time, days of the week, months, and years. The patterns you need to make plans and talk about when things happen.
- Modal verbsHow to say can, will, may, should, must, and want. The core modal verbs of Cantonese and the differences that trip up beginners.
