gong2 gik6 dou1 m4 ming4講極都唔明讲极都唔明

Jyutpinggong2 gik6 dou1 m4 ming4
Yalegóng gihk dōu m̀h mìhng

Definition

To be unable to get through to someone despite repeated explanations; to talk to a brick wall.

colloquialcommunicationemotion

How it's used

Focuses on the frustration of a speaker who has exhausted all efforts to explain something to a listener who refuses to listen or lacks the capacity to comprehend. It carries a strong sense of exasperation and is often used when the speaker feels the listener is being deliberately obtuse or stubborn. The structure relies on the adverbial use of 極 to emphasize the repetition of the action until the point of futility.

Examples

Why can you not understand no matter how many times I explain, are you trying to drive me crazy?

Common phrases

to refuse to listen no matter what is said
to refuse to change no matter how many times one is told

Common mistake

Avoid using this to describe a simple misunderstanding or a genuine lack of information, as it carries a judgmental tone implying the listener is at fault for not grasping the point.

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