ging3 zau2 m4 jam2 jam2 fat6 zau2敬酒唔飲飲罰酒敬酒唔饮饮罚酒
Jyutpingging3 zau2 m4 jam2 jam2 fat6 zau2
Yaleging jáu m̀h yám yám faht jáu
Definition
To refuse to do something the easy way, only to be forced to do it the hard way.
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How it's used
This idiom is used to describe someone who stubbornly refuses a polite offer or a reasonable request, only to face much harsher consequences later. It carries a strong tone of warning or criticism, implying that the person is foolish for not taking the easy way out when they had the chance. It is frequently used in workplace or social conflicts where someone is being difficult.
Examples
He refused to cooperate and ended up getting fired.
Related words
Common phrases
really being stubborn and asking for trouble
Common mistake
Learners often mistake this for a literal description of drinking alcohol, but it is purely metaphorical. It should not be used to describe someone who simply dislikes alcohol or refuses a drink at a party.
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Grammar guides
- LocationHow to say where something is using 喺 (hai2), place words like 度, and the common coverbs that work like English prepositions.
- Serial verbsStringing two or more verbs together without any joining word, like go to the shop buy things. Extremely common in Cantonese.
- 將 disposalHow to move the object in front of the verb with 將, to focus on what happens to it. Common in instructions and writing.



