co1 gwai1 san1 pou5 lok6 dei6 haai4 ji4初歸新抱落地孩兒初归新抱落地孩儿
Definition
A new daughter-in-law is like a newborn baby, meaning she must learn the family's rules from scratch.
How it's used
This proverb highlights the traditional expectation that a woman joining a new household must adopt the customs and habits of her husband's family as if she were a child learning for the first time. It is often used to excuse a new bride's initial clumsiness or ignorance of family traditions. While the sentiment reflects older patriarchal structures, it remains a common idiom used to describe the adjustment period for anyone entering a new, unfamiliar environment.
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Do not use this phrase to describe a literal infant, as it specifically refers to the social transition of a bride entering her in-laws' home. It is a cultural idiom rather than a biological description.
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Grammar guides
- NegationHow to say no, not, didn't, and don't in Cantonese. The four main negation words and when to use each one.
- Numbers and moneyCounting, talking about money, and asking how much things cost. Includes the two words for two and the everyday words for dollars and cents.
- Aspect markersCantonese has no tenses, but it does have aspect markers. Learn how zo2, gwo3, gan2, and hai2 dou6 show completion, experience, and ongoing action.
