wai3 lau4慰留

Jyutpingwai3 lau4
Yalewai làuh

Definition

To persuade someone to stay on, such as an employee resigning from their post.

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How it's used

Used primarily in professional or workplace contexts when a valued staff member hands in their resignation. It implies a sense of appreciation for the person's contribution and a genuine desire to retain their talent. While formal in tone, it is frequently used in office settings to describe the process of counter-offering or discussing future prospects to change someone's mind.

Examples

The boss sincerely persuaded him to stay.

Common phrases

to try hard to persuade someone to stay
failed to persuade someone to stay

Common mistake

Do not confuse this with simply asking someone to stay for a social visit, which would use 留. 慰留 specifically carries the weight of professional retention and negotiation.

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