tong4 dai2 dak6塘底凸
Jyutpingtong4 dai2 dak6
Yaletòhng dái dahk
Definition
A fair-weather person who only shows up when they are broke or need to borrow money.
colloquialpeopleslang
How it's used
This expression relies on the imagery of a stick resting at the bottom of a pond that only becomes visible when the water dries up. It is a colorful way to describe a fair-weather friend or a moocher who has been absent until they hit rock bottom. Using it implies a sense of frustration or cynicism toward the person's opportunistic behavior.
Examples
He is never around, but he pops up whenever he is broke.
Related words
Common phrases
to appear only when desperate for help
Common mistake
Because this is a specific colloquial idiom, it is not used as a literal description of objects. Do not use it to describe actual items found in a pond, as it is strictly reserved for describing people's social behavior.
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