tong4 dai2 dak6塘底凸

Jyutpingtong4 dai2 dak6
Yaletòhng dái dahk

Definition

A fair-weather person who only shows up when they are broke or need to borrow money.

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How it's used

This expression relies on the imagery of a stick resting at the bottom of a pond that only becomes visible when the water dries up. It is a colorful way to describe a fair-weather friend or a moocher who has been absent until they hit rock bottom. Using it implies a sense of frustration or cynicism toward the person's opportunistic behavior.

Examples

He is never around, but he pops up whenever he is broke.
Don't bother with him, he is just that kind of person who only shows up when he needs something.

Common phrases

to appear only when desperate for help

Common mistake

Because this is a specific colloquial idiom, it is not used as a literal description of objects. Do not use it to describe actual items found in a pond, as it is strictly reserved for describing people's social behavior.

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