mou5 zi6 m4 zoi6, lo2 fu2 lei4 san1冇自唔在，攞苦嚟辛
Definition
To make a rod for one's own back; to bring trouble upon oneself unnecessarily.
How it's used
This expression is a classic example of Cantonese reduplication and rhythmic structure, often used to scold someone for meddling in affairs that do not concern them or for creating unnecessary work. It carries a strong sense of exasperation and implies that the person is suffering from their own poor judgment. The phrase is almost exclusively used in informal settings to criticize someone's foolish choices.
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Common mistake
Learners often struggle with the pronunciation of the double negative 冇自唔在, as it is a set idiom that should be treated as a single unit rather than broken down word by word. Do not attempt to use this in formal writing or professional contexts, as it sounds very blunt and judgmental.
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Grammar guides
- NegationHow to say no, not, didn't, and don't in Cantonese. The four main negation words and when to use each one.
- Numbers and moneyCounting, talking about money, and asking how much things cost. Includes the two words for two and the everyday words for dollars and cents.
- Aspect markersCantonese has no tenses, but it does have aspect markers. Learn how zo2, gwo3, gan2, and hai2 dou6 show completion, experience, and ongoing action.
