dam2 sam1 hau2抌心口

Jyutpingdam2 sam1 hau2
Yaledám sām háu

Definition

To feel deep regret, or to blackmail someone.

  1. slangto feel very regretful or remorseful about what one has done
  2. slangto blackmail or extort someone
colloquialemotionslang

How it's used

The phrase literally describes the action of beating one's own chest in frustration or sorrow. It is almost exclusively used to express intense personal regret over a missed opportunity or a past mistake. While it can theoretically imply extortion in specific contexts, its primary and most common usage is centered on self-inflicted emotional pain.

Examples

Thinking back to that mistake, I really feel so regretful.
You did the wrong thing, feeling regretful now is useless.

Related words

synonymhau6 fui3後悔hauh fuisynonymdam2 sam1dám sām

Common phrases

it is useless to regret it now

Common mistake

Do not confuse this with physical chest pain, which is usually described as 心口痛. Using 抌心口 to describe a medical condition will cause confusion as it specifically refers to the emotional act of beating one's chest in remorse.

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