jan4 zi1 zoeng1 sei2 ，kei4 jin4 jaa5 sin6人之將死，其言也善人之将死，其言也善
Definition
Words of a man on his deathbed always come from the heart (proverb)
How it's used
This classical idiom is frequently used in modern Cantonese to describe a sudden change in attitude or sincerity from someone who is nearing the end of their life or, metaphorically, someone who has reached a point of no return. It carries a sense of gravity and reflection, often used to justify forgiving past grievances. While it originates from Confucian texts, it remains a standard way to comment on the final, honest revelations of a person.
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Common mistake
Learners often mistake this for a casual observation about someone being nice, but it is specifically reserved for end-of-life contexts or final, irreversible moments. Using it to describe someone who is simply having a good day will sound bizarrely morbid.
Tone guide
Grammar guides
- TonesCantonese has six tones, and the tones can change in certain grammatical contexts. Learn the six tones and the rules for tone change.
- NegationHow to say no, not, didn't, and don't in Cantonese. The four main negation words and when to use each one.
- Aspect markersCantonese has no tenses, but it does have aspect markers. Learn how zo2, gwo3, gan2, and hai2 dou6 show completion, experience, and ongoing action.
